AND a QUESTION for YOU!
For some reason today I have been thinking about the strange way that time seems to pass.
Years can fly by, minutes sometimes seem like an eternity.
Ten years ago Jonathan was asked if he would consider moving to TX for 18 months to 2 years. He sort-of..., in a round about way... brought the request to my attention.
You see, we had recently moved into our new home. One we had worked really hard and saved for. We were excited about the location. We loved living in CO. We had done a lot of the work on our home ourselves. We did the flooring, painting, lighting, landscaping, anything and everything that we could possibly do! Why in the world would we want to move? He thought I would never be on board and support him in this request but immediately I knew it was what we needed to do. We needed to at the very least explore the offer further as well as the DFW area.
We flew to TX during spring break. We had a look around. I loved the warm spring weather and rain as well as the flowers and trees which were blooming everywhere. And I was excited for the opportunity to get to know my nieces better.
Moving for a couple of years wouldn't be a big deal; I felt that.
The new opportunities that were placed before us outweighed any of our concerns about leaving CO.
We had been greatly enriched by our time in VT, if I could have survived the winters there better with my health and if the company Jonathan was working for at the time would have been better, we may have never left. That was a sweet time in our lives, a truly unique and extraordinary experience.
CO was wonderful in a completely different way. We had decided that CO would be our "forever" home. (Ha, ha.) We would live there forever, raise all of our children there (forever), in relatively close proximity to family. (Not really close but close enough and as close as possible!). We believed we would eventually die and be buried there. We loved the lifestyle in CO: the hiking, biking, mountains, sunshine, bright blue skies and plenty of outdoor fun!
In fact, I have a bit of a confession to make. I had always wanted to live in CO. I thought of it as my safe place...even when I was living in Italy. Isn't that funny? When I first arrived in Italy and some scary things happened right away, I would think to myself, "I'm not that far from home, everything is going to be fine, I am in an Italian speaking area of Colorado." (Ha, ha!) What a silly thing to think in order to get me through a rough patch.
So, naturally, when Jonathan was looking for work in other parts of the US while we were in VT, Colorado was at the top of our list. And it ended up giving us the best offer with the best company at the time.
However, now I find myself here (in our temporary state - pun) in TX 10 years later. I have lived here longer than any where else, except for my home in the Seattle area.
We have had many times when a move back to CO has presented itself in some form and it hasn't been right or hasn't worked out.
Even though TX was never on our radar and never on our list of places to live, we have gained so much from living here. The people are friendly and love to chat with anyone. The schools and education opportunities for the kids have been wonderful! The weather has been really good for my health. And we have gotten the opportunity to know 2 of my nieces in a way that would have never happened otherwise.
Maybe it is Spring Fever talking but as much as I love it here, I could be up for a new adventure. I guess I get restless when I have been in one place for a long time. I don't believe I could ever talk Jonathan into going where I would love to go next. It would require him to learn a new language :), but that wouldn't be the reason that would keep him from moving there.
You may be wondering now if our home is on the market again, no, it isn't. I'm just thinking about how our little temporary adventure turned into our life here for 10 years. And how that time was so full that we didn't ever realize how quickly it was flying by.
SOOO.... if you could live any where, where would it be? Or if you could have a temporary adventure in any location, where would you choose to go..., if you could?
I have a list...
I would love to know what destination(s) would be on yours?
Please tell, don't be shy!